Ahhh, the last day of the challenge, and the last day of the month! This has made the month truly seem to fly by! I have struggled a bit through the month, between getting posts up on the right days, and taking the time to check out other blogs, but all in all I feel pretty darn accomplished. Yay me, and yay readers for sticking with me!
Of course, I am going to pick a word for today that is rampant in the world....zombie. According to the 1977 edition of Webster's New Collegiate Dictionary that is in my possession, this is the definition:
zombie (also zombi) n [of Niger-Congo origin; akin to Kongo nzambi god] 1. usu zombi a: the voodoo snake deity b: the supernatural power that according to voodoo belief may enter into and reanimate a dead body c: a will-less and speechless human in the West Indies capable only of automatic movement who is held to have died and been reanimated but often believed to have been drugged into a catalepsy for the hours of interment 2 a: a person held to resemble the so-called walking dead; esp AUTOMATON b: a person markedly strange in appearance or behavior 3: a mixed drink made of several kinds of rum, liqueur, and fruit juice
Well, certainly seems to cover it. I don't know about any of you, but Zombieland and Shaun of the Dead are two zombie movies that I absolutely love! They have great tips for dealing with the zombie-ocalypse that is supposedly going to occur, and still make for funny movies.
Someone pointed out to me that the influx of zombie movies is helping us to prepare for the "armageddon" period of this history. Guess it's a good thing I have a couple of survivalists nearby to help me get sorted. I am NOT making light of survivalists who, like my neighbors, have a desire to know how to survive in certain situations, and their knowledge is very important.
Anyway, I hope we all survive the zombie-ocalypse, and see each other on the other side of December as well!!
Tomorrow is May Day, and this brings a new contest to us!
Monday, April 30, 2012
"Y"
I took a peek over at Quintessentially Questionable Query Experiment where Matthew covered the Yakuza. I have always been fascinated by the tattoos of the Yakuza, being of a modified body myself. The artwork that goes into the full body suits of the Yakuza is astounding. Nothing short of awesome, despite anyone's feelings regarding tattoos. The art itself is inspiring. And the years it takes to get the entire tattoo work is daunting, not to mention the pain involved! These tattoos are most often done by hand through a highly respected master of the technique. Just, wow.
Soon my sorority will be doing it's yardstick to measure how well we did in terms of the expectations for our sorority. It will be odd not to participate this year, but I am confident that we will come out in the typical 3-star range for our small organization. This idea has made me consider taking stock of my own life, and creating a yardstick for myself. In all honesty, I feel like I have measured up in many areas, but am still lacking in the betterment area. Sure, I read prolifically, and write, well, not as often as I should (certainly not everyday) but in reality, I am stumbling on my road to a better health-syle. I started out well back in February, but am slacking. I found an interesting site, Couch to 5K, and am surprised at how easy it really sounds. I tried it last Wednesday, and I think I might be able to handle it, with a little help from Girl and Little Man. When Dad gets home, it could be fun!
I have become more interested in yoga, as there are a number of poses which, despite my current lack of flexibility, are pretty low impact and not too stressful on the aging body I am inhabiting. Yoga seems to give me a sense of peace, even simply watching it. I have seen the difference in one of my sorority sisters since she started it (oooh, such alliteration!) and am loving how her outlook has improved. Maybe I can accomplish this through the use of my Wii, and speaking to a local instructor (yes, our little town has one - ask at the rec center!).
Enjoy your day! Look for a pet brag board, and a new contest starting tomorrow!!!
Soon my sorority will be doing it's yardstick to measure how well we did in terms of the expectations for our sorority. It will be odd not to participate this year, but I am confident that we will come out in the typical 3-star range for our small organization. This idea has made me consider taking stock of my own life, and creating a yardstick for myself. In all honesty, I feel like I have measured up in many areas, but am still lacking in the betterment area. Sure, I read prolifically, and write, well, not as often as I should (certainly not everyday) but in reality, I am stumbling on my road to a better health-syle. I started out well back in February, but am slacking. I found an interesting site, Couch to 5K, and am surprised at how easy it really sounds. I tried it last Wednesday, and I think I might be able to handle it, with a little help from Girl and Little Man. When Dad gets home, it could be fun!
I have become more interested in yoga, as there are a number of poses which, despite my current lack of flexibility, are pretty low impact and not too stressful on the aging body I am inhabiting. Yoga seems to give me a sense of peace, even simply watching it. I have seen the difference in one of my sorority sisters since she started it (oooh, such alliteration!) and am loving how her outlook has improved. Maybe I can accomplish this through the use of my Wii, and speaking to a local instructor (yes, our little town has one - ask at the rec center!).
Enjoy your day! Look for a pet brag board, and a new contest starting tomorrow!!!
"X"
I bet you all think I am going to cover xylophone, or try something cute for this letter, don't you?
Well, you are sort of right. Has anyone here read the novels by Piers Anthony known collectively as "The Xanth Trilogy"? It really is a series of books (more than 12 at my last count). The series is about a magical world known as Xanth (pr. zanth) and I STILL love them. He was my favorite author when I was in high school (I even wrote him a letter, and got a response too!!), and can still say I love to read his work.
Xanth is a land of magic, vaguely shaped like Florida, with many plays-on-words to name items, people, and places in the land. For example, there is a drink known as Boot Rear, which is found in pitcher-like plants that, after you drink it, will make you fly forward as though you have been kicked in the posterior. There is swamp called Ogre-fen-ogre Swamp. There is a woman named Ivy who has a very strong talent with plants. There are horses who bring bad dreams, known as Night Mares, and each are named after the "lakes" found on the moon. Yeah, kinda "lame" but in a cool way. At least for me.
If I hadn't read this series of books (and I think he is still writing them actually), I would not have been introduced to other books he has written. He wrote a series called the Incarnations of Immortality, which I absolutely loved, and also a series called The Blue Adept.
The Incarnations of Immortality is about, yep, you guessed it, the Incarnations (Death, War, Gaea, etc.) and was a very interesting spin on the humanity of the offices. I just re-read the first book, On a Pale Horse, and was sucked right back in to the world. Not many authors can make me pick them up after more than *mumble* years.
The Blue Adept series begins in a modern scientific world, and ends up in a magical world, with an eventual juxtaposing of the two worlds. Strongly recommended, even after all this time.
Enjoy your day, and eXperience something magical for yourself!
Well, you are sort of right. Has anyone here read the novels by Piers Anthony known collectively as "The Xanth Trilogy"? It really is a series of books (more than 12 at my last count). The series is about a magical world known as Xanth (pr. zanth) and I STILL love them. He was my favorite author when I was in high school (I even wrote him a letter, and got a response too!!), and can still say I love to read his work.
Xanth is a land of magic, vaguely shaped like Florida, with many plays-on-words to name items, people, and places in the land. For example, there is a drink known as Boot Rear, which is found in pitcher-like plants that, after you drink it, will make you fly forward as though you have been kicked in the posterior. There is swamp called Ogre-fen-ogre Swamp. There is a woman named Ivy who has a very strong talent with plants. There are horses who bring bad dreams, known as Night Mares, and each are named after the "lakes" found on the moon. Yeah, kinda "lame" but in a cool way. At least for me.
If I hadn't read this series of books (and I think he is still writing them actually), I would not have been introduced to other books he has written. He wrote a series called the Incarnations of Immortality, which I absolutely loved, and also a series called The Blue Adept.
The Incarnations of Immortality is about, yep, you guessed it, the Incarnations (Death, War, Gaea, etc.) and was a very interesting spin on the humanity of the offices. I just re-read the first book, On a Pale Horse, and was sucked right back in to the world. Not many authors can make me pick them up after more than *mumble* years.
The Blue Adept series begins in a modern scientific world, and ends up in a magical world, with an eventual juxtaposing of the two worlds. Strongly recommended, even after all this time.
Enjoy your day, and eXperience something magical for yourself!
Words with Friends
I was the chaperone for the students traveling to the State Art Symposium Thursday and Friday, so my posts for those days are being done today, along with Saturday's and I really have no excuse for Saturday being late.
"W" brings to mind wild, wacky, witty, willful, wonderful, and wicked. All of those adjectives can be applied to me, of course. Also, my daughter could be those things. Well, face it, the apple doesn't always fall far from the tree. (Right, Mom?) And most of my friends fall into those separate categories, and one in particular (A) fits all at once. She's so crazy!
I have been playing a game with some family and friends on Facebook called Words with Friends. It's basically Scrabble for those who do not know about the game. It's addictive. And has been a good way for me to stay in touch with a friend of mine I haven't heard from in awhile.
This game is also tough, especially for me. Sure I know words, but I am playing against my mother, who collects words like most little old ladies collect tschotkes (I think I got the original Yiddish spelling here, so don't freak on me!)! That is when I have a hard time. Also, I get the strategy of playing on the double and triple letters/words, but if there are no letters to work with, sure is hard! Ahh, challenges!
In response to all my readers (one!!) who have posted comments, thanks! And to you others, what the heck do I have to put in here to get a response? If there is a suggestion for a topic you would like to see me cover, feel free to let me know.
Mrs. H, just let me know how you want me to handle your big win of an Amazon gift card when you get a chance! I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond to my posts. Maybe we can visit about a new contest that starts next month - OMG, that's tomorrow!! Yikes! That means only 27 days until Girl's birthday and that means a learner's permit. Holy Hannah!
Anyway, enjoy the words in your life, and all your friends who have colorful adjectives attached to them!
"W" brings to mind wild, wacky, witty, willful, wonderful, and wicked. All of those adjectives can be applied to me, of course. Also, my daughter could be those things. Well, face it, the apple doesn't always fall far from the tree. (Right, Mom?) And most of my friends fall into those separate categories, and one in particular (A) fits all at once. She's so crazy!
I have been playing a game with some family and friends on Facebook called Words with Friends. It's basically Scrabble for those who do not know about the game. It's addictive. And has been a good way for me to stay in touch with a friend of mine I haven't heard from in awhile.
This game is also tough, especially for me. Sure I know words, but I am playing against my mother, who collects words like most little old ladies collect tschotkes (I think I got the original Yiddish spelling here, so don't freak on me!)! That is when I have a hard time. Also, I get the strategy of playing on the double and triple letters/words, but if there are no letters to work with, sure is hard! Ahh, challenges!
In response to all my readers (one!!) who have posted comments, thanks! And to you others, what the heck do I have to put in here to get a response? If there is a suggestion for a topic you would like to see me cover, feel free to let me know.
Mrs. H, just let me know how you want me to handle your big win of an Amazon gift card when you get a chance! I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond to my posts. Maybe we can visit about a new contest that starts next month - OMG, that's tomorrow!! Yikes! That means only 27 days until Girl's birthday and that means a learner's permit. Holy Hannah!
Anyway, enjoy the words in your life, and all your friends who have colorful adjectives attached to them!
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
V
Verve, vivaciousness, vehemence, veracity, varied, vigilant, v, v, v.....which word, or concept today?
Vigilance (n) - the quality or state of being vigilant (helpful, right?)
Vigilant (adj) - from Middle English for to keep watch; alertly watchful, especially to avoid danger.
What does this have to do with anything? Well, perhaps we need a bit more vigilance in the school system in finding those students who are at risk of dropping out due to overwhelming circumstances. True, often those circumstances are of the student's own doing, but maybe we need to change the rules of No Child Left Behind to something along the lines of "no child should be left behind who has attempted to understand the work, but struggles with the concepts. The students struggling will be allowed to pass on to the next grade but will complete the difficult class(es) concurrently in the following grade. Those students who opt to not attempt the required work, nor attempt to understand the concepts will be held back to clearly define responsibility and consequences."
Varied - having numerous forms or types
This kind of ties back to what I discussed yesterday, with the unusual and unexpected post. Variety is the spice of life, right?
What about veracity? (n) devotion to the truth; power of conveying or perceiving truth; conformity with the truth or fact; something true.
Hmm...I like this word. I believe in veracity. Accuracy and specificity are wonderful. I like honesty and truth, and being specifically accurate. Although, I do ramble.
So now for vivaciousness. Oh yeah, I'm there! I just got the news that our family grows by one in late July or early August, and NO!!! I'm not pregnant. Dad will get to come home then! This has been a long time coming and now, you all get to put up with me being perky and happy for the next 3 months...and then, we will see. A whole lot of changes have happened in the last 8 years. Could be interesting!
I feel like I'm right at the top of the world right now, and hopefully nothing will bring me smashing back down to earth to soon. I would like to enjoy this happiness for a bit.
Thanks all for your continued viewing and hopefully future viewing as well!
Keep reading, and let's see some posts!! I am thinking about a chance for you readers to do a "pet brag board" on here, and am working on those details right now. I will be putting my doggie doo on the board if there is interest. Anyway....have an excellent day, and don't forget the comment contest ends next week! Still time to make me laugh or cry!
Torment your friends and family, and even your enemies with my blog!
The definitions above came from Webster's New Collegiate Dictionary (c) 1977.
Vigilance (n) - the quality or state of being vigilant (helpful, right?)
Vigilant (adj) - from Middle English for to keep watch; alertly watchful, especially to avoid danger.
What does this have to do with anything? Well, perhaps we need a bit more vigilance in the school system in finding those students who are at risk of dropping out due to overwhelming circumstances. True, often those circumstances are of the student's own doing, but maybe we need to change the rules of No Child Left Behind to something along the lines of "no child should be left behind who has attempted to understand the work, but struggles with the concepts. The students struggling will be allowed to pass on to the next grade but will complete the difficult class(es) concurrently in the following grade. Those students who opt to not attempt the required work, nor attempt to understand the concepts will be held back to clearly define responsibility and consequences."
Varied - having numerous forms or types
This kind of ties back to what I discussed yesterday, with the unusual and unexpected post. Variety is the spice of life, right?
What about veracity? (n) devotion to the truth; power of conveying or perceiving truth; conformity with the truth or fact; something true.
Hmm...I like this word. I believe in veracity. Accuracy and specificity are wonderful. I like honesty and truth, and being specifically accurate. Although, I do ramble.
So now for vivaciousness. Oh yeah, I'm there! I just got the news that our family grows by one in late July or early August, and NO!!! I'm not pregnant. Dad will get to come home then! This has been a long time coming and now, you all get to put up with me being perky and happy for the next 3 months...and then, we will see. A whole lot of changes have happened in the last 8 years. Could be interesting!
I feel like I'm right at the top of the world right now, and hopefully nothing will bring me smashing back down to earth to soon. I would like to enjoy this happiness for a bit.
Thanks all for your continued viewing and hopefully future viewing as well!
Keep reading, and let's see some posts!! I am thinking about a chance for you readers to do a "pet brag board" on here, and am working on those details right now. I will be putting my doggie doo on the board if there is interest. Anyway....have an excellent day, and don't forget the comment contest ends next week! Still time to make me laugh or cry!
Torment your friends and family, and even your enemies with my blog!
The definitions above came from Webster's New Collegiate Dictionary (c) 1977.
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
Unusual
No surprise for those who know me that I would pick this word today. I am drawn to the unusual, the different, the unexpected. I like being unusual, not a "sheeple" and I am pretty sure I am unexpected for most.
I like the unusual, the unexpected. I know we all see things differently, based on perspective, upbringing, etc., but I love how I see things differently. When I look at Seurat paintings, I see the dots, and at the same time, I see the simplicity, the big picture, and the little details.
When I look at a flower, the construction is astounding, and especially so when it is off-kilter and different from those flowers around it. I like the stuffed animals on the shelves which have eyes that are crossed or in different positions, because they are unusual.
However, I am not interested in the price that sometimes comes with the unusual. Yeah, that unusual (often a mistake or mutant genes) suddenly ups the price on something. That seems completely counterintuitive. I understand the concept that one-of-a-kind things are low in supply, high in demand, and prices will rise for that. But really? For a stuffed animal some dork couldn't be bothered to set eyes onto correctly before sewing should have it's price raised. Um, no, I don't believe so.
How about the unusual facts we collect in our lives? Like the fact that James Earl Jones is a stutterer. Yeah, surprising, but a fact nonetheless. Makes me enjoy his voice even more, honestly.
I love learning unusual things, unexpected things. Jude Law wears a hearing aid...yep. Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje (ask me who he is...yum-o) speaks with a Cockney accent, except in movies, where he adopts a Sudanese accent, and is fluent in several languages, as well as having a masters in Law from the University of London.
So, learning unusual facts (although I just plain love learning) can be kind of neato, huh?
Is there something unusual you like to see, hear, buy, learn, do? Please, share! Could be fun trying something new, maybe even terrifying ourselves. They say that life begins outside of your comfort zone!
Remember, comment contest ends next week! Looks like Mrs. H may sweep this month's. She could be looking at a decent gift certificate from Amazon.com!!!! So, don't let her take the whole shebang! Make her work for it!
Don't forget to tell your friends, neighbors, family, and enemies about my blog (at least I could offend them for you!)!
Have a great day!
I like the unusual, the unexpected. I know we all see things differently, based on perspective, upbringing, etc., but I love how I see things differently. When I look at Seurat paintings, I see the dots, and at the same time, I see the simplicity, the big picture, and the little details.
When I look at a flower, the construction is astounding, and especially so when it is off-kilter and different from those flowers around it. I like the stuffed animals on the shelves which have eyes that are crossed or in different positions, because they are unusual.
However, I am not interested in the price that sometimes comes with the unusual. Yeah, that unusual (often a mistake or mutant genes) suddenly ups the price on something. That seems completely counterintuitive. I understand the concept that one-of-a-kind things are low in supply, high in demand, and prices will rise for that. But really? For a stuffed animal some dork couldn't be bothered to set eyes onto correctly before sewing should have it's price raised. Um, no, I don't believe so.
How about the unusual facts we collect in our lives? Like the fact that James Earl Jones is a stutterer. Yeah, surprising, but a fact nonetheless. Makes me enjoy his voice even more, honestly.
I love learning unusual things, unexpected things. Jude Law wears a hearing aid...yep. Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje (ask me who he is...yum-o) speaks with a Cockney accent, except in movies, where he adopts a Sudanese accent, and is fluent in several languages, as well as having a masters in Law from the University of London.
So, learning unusual facts (although I just plain love learning) can be kind of neato, huh?
Is there something unusual you like to see, hear, buy, learn, do? Please, share! Could be fun trying something new, maybe even terrifying ourselves. They say that life begins outside of your comfort zone!
Remember, comment contest ends next week! Looks like Mrs. H may sweep this month's. She could be looking at a decent gift certificate from Amazon.com!!!! So, don't let her take the whole shebang! Make her work for it!
Don't forget to tell your friends, neighbors, family, and enemies about my blog (at least I could offend them for you!)!
Have a great day!
Monday, April 23, 2012
Terrified
So, yeah. I'm kind of terrified about what I've been doing with this "Much Ado About Nothing" because things are coming to me left and right for the story. It's a take off from the play (kinda like Ten Things I Hate About You is for "Taming of the Shrew" but not necessarily about the romance.) and not only am I terrified, I'm excited.
The work is tortuous, taxing, and time-consuming, but terrific. I am totally taken with thoughts, theories, and twists on the plot.
Was that too much? Too bad. Haha.
Yes, the post for "T" is short, but to the point.
And quite alliterative as well. Haha.
I am wishing you all the opportunity to terrify yourselves with trying something new and different. It could very well be worth it, giving you a new outlook on life.
Remember the comment contest and to tell everyone about the blog!
The work is tortuous, taxing, and time-consuming, but terrific. I am totally taken with thoughts, theories, and twists on the plot.
Was that too much? Too bad. Haha.
Yes, the post for "T" is short, but to the point.
And quite alliterative as well. Haha.
I am wishing you all the opportunity to terrify yourselves with trying something new and different. It could very well be worth it, giving you a new outlook on life.
Remember the comment contest and to tell everyone about the blog!
Simple
This weekend was a glorious one for me and my family. It was full of quality time together, and with friends. It was simple, and I find joy in simple, especially after a busy week.
Friday night was the only night last week I didn't have something scheduled. It was a simple pleasure to sit and play games on my computer, and to help my daughter with her homework. My son enjoyed hanging out and watching movies with me. Very relaxing night. Again, simple pleasures. And it was nice to have a simple mind after that week.
Saturday was a simple day of visiting, and, although technically it was work, I helped a student with her senior presentation. That was not really work though (not for me). I managed to find the day full of a simple life.
Yesterday was a busy day, but it held the simple pleasure of catching up on housework. Sounds weird, I know, but hear me out. For me, doing dishes by hand is relaxing because I can think about what needs to be done, make lists in my head, and then zone out. I made 3 meals yesterday (again, shocking, I know!) and scrubbed up a mess my dog left me because she was sick. Mopped the entire hallway and kitchen. Whew. Worked up a heck of a sweat, but it was accomplished and I felt accomplished. I know some people who read this might not understand, but I am so not Martha Steward or Susie Homemaker, and so doing things like that is usually a torture, but yesterday it felt fantastic. And it was really a simple pleasure. Plus, because I did that, my daughter had to clean the toilet. hahahahahahaha
Anyway, take the time to find the simple pleasures in your life. Reading, watching a favorite television program, listening to a favorite radio program or song (or album even), gardening, whatever floats your boat. Those simple pleasures don't really mean a simple mind, but a relaxed mind and body (finally!).
Remember, comment contest and tell everybody about the blog!
Wishing you a day of simple pleasures.
Friday night was the only night last week I didn't have something scheduled. It was a simple pleasure to sit and play games on my computer, and to help my daughter with her homework. My son enjoyed hanging out and watching movies with me. Very relaxing night. Again, simple pleasures. And it was nice to have a simple mind after that week.
Saturday was a simple day of visiting, and, although technically it was work, I helped a student with her senior presentation. That was not really work though (not for me). I managed to find the day full of a simple life.
Yesterday was a busy day, but it held the simple pleasure of catching up on housework. Sounds weird, I know, but hear me out. For me, doing dishes by hand is relaxing because I can think about what needs to be done, make lists in my head, and then zone out. I made 3 meals yesterday (again, shocking, I know!) and scrubbed up a mess my dog left me because she was sick. Mopped the entire hallway and kitchen. Whew. Worked up a heck of a sweat, but it was accomplished and I felt accomplished. I know some people who read this might not understand, but I am so not Martha Steward or Susie Homemaker, and so doing things like that is usually a torture, but yesterday it felt fantastic. And it was really a simple pleasure. Plus, because I did that, my daughter had to clean the toilet. hahahahahahaha
Anyway, take the time to find the simple pleasures in your life. Reading, watching a favorite television program, listening to a favorite radio program or song (or album even), gardening, whatever floats your boat. Those simple pleasures don't really mean a simple mind, but a relaxed mind and body (finally!).
Remember, comment contest and tell everybody about the blog!
Wishing you a day of simple pleasures.
Friday, April 20, 2012
Today is brought to you by the letter "R"...
and once again the blinking cursor. I had some thoughts on phrases that start with "R" but that seems like taking the easy way out.
I know I catch myself saying "Right on" a lot, and if it annoys me, I feel sorry for all the people around me. The phrase is a good response for when you don't want to appear too enthusiastic, or just as good for when you feel super enthusiastic. I use it when I'm not sure how someone would like me to respond.
I appreciate the subtle nuance of the phrase. (*cough* yeah, right *cough*)
How about a word, then?
Responsibility. A word loaded with emotion.
In my world, I am held responsible for a multitude of things: children, bills, maid duties, etc. How about in your world?
Teachers (and schools) are held responsible for choices students make, which seems wrong to me. Sure, we all wish there were teachers that could inspire even the laziest, most uninterested students, but there just aren't very many of those left. School holds no surprises for students when there is the Internet. Students know they will not be held back, nor held accountable for the choices made in school, so they figure "why bother?" and teachers are left holding the bag.
In all honesty, responsibility is one of most important things school should teach students. Not only should students be held accountable for choices being made, but also, there should be consequences for those choices at every grade level. How can not failing a student do anything but set those future graduates up for failure in the real world? If the student is not grasping concepts, and honestly is struggling, please hold that student back until the concept is understood. If a student is merely choosing to fail, then let them fail. How can this hurt anyone's feelings? Those students will look back (theoretically - unless they are spoiled and have been raised to think the world owes them something because they are here) and be thankful for being able to grasp real world concepts.
And yes, every core subject is used on a regular basis in the real world. Sure, history seems like a waste, but there is the often heard quote "those who do not study history are doomed to repeat it" and it can be taken any way the reader chooses. I feel that if we do not understand what our history teaches us, how can we make a decent future for our children?
Sure, you and I may not want to know all the formulas for math or science, but one of your classmates may go on to use those to cure cancer or get humans to another planet safely. How cool is that?
And yes, literature is difficult to understand. Some of the stuff in Shakespeare has even me thinking "huh?" but there are themes, and morals in the stories and poems that are read in literature. English classes teach us how to write properly for improved communication, and in a global economy, good communication is key. Sure, language usage changes, but we need to learn those facts too. Yes, we speak English (technically American English), but what kind of excuse is that?
And speaking of excuses, I would like to share something I read on Facebook. "If it's important to you, you will find a reason. If it's not, you will find an excuse." Wow. Just wow. Seems to me that the students who have come up with every excuse in the book for failing to do what is necessary find education to not be important. Really? Let me see how you are truly getting by in the real world in 5 years without the knowledge you need from schooling (if Mommy and Daddy aren't bailing you out that is).
So, shouldn't we be holding these students accountable? Responsible? Hmm...let me think....OF COURSE!!! I hold my child responsible. Why can't other parents? It would hurt their feelings? Really? Okay, how do you think they will feel when you are gone and can't help them out of a situation they got themselves into because of continued poor choices? More than their feelings might be hurt - those affected would include: children, family, co-workers, friends, etc. Wow. Their feelings might be hurt. Sheesh.
Plain and simple, take responsibility for your choices people!! Gosh.
Okay, I'm stepping down from my soapbox now. Have a fantabulous weekend! And I hope George Takei has a fantastic birthday today!!
I know I catch myself saying "Right on" a lot, and if it annoys me, I feel sorry for all the people around me. The phrase is a good response for when you don't want to appear too enthusiastic, or just as good for when you feel super enthusiastic. I use it when I'm not sure how someone would like me to respond.
I appreciate the subtle nuance of the phrase. (*cough* yeah, right *cough*)
How about a word, then?
Responsibility. A word loaded with emotion.
In my world, I am held responsible for a multitude of things: children, bills, maid duties, etc. How about in your world?
Teachers (and schools) are held responsible for choices students make, which seems wrong to me. Sure, we all wish there were teachers that could inspire even the laziest, most uninterested students, but there just aren't very many of those left. School holds no surprises for students when there is the Internet. Students know they will not be held back, nor held accountable for the choices made in school, so they figure "why bother?" and teachers are left holding the bag.
In all honesty, responsibility is one of most important things school should teach students. Not only should students be held accountable for choices being made, but also, there should be consequences for those choices at every grade level. How can not failing a student do anything but set those future graduates up for failure in the real world? If the student is not grasping concepts, and honestly is struggling, please hold that student back until the concept is understood. If a student is merely choosing to fail, then let them fail. How can this hurt anyone's feelings? Those students will look back (theoretically - unless they are spoiled and have been raised to think the world owes them something because they are here) and be thankful for being able to grasp real world concepts.
And yes, every core subject is used on a regular basis in the real world. Sure, history seems like a waste, but there is the often heard quote "those who do not study history are doomed to repeat it" and it can be taken any way the reader chooses. I feel that if we do not understand what our history teaches us, how can we make a decent future for our children?
Sure, you and I may not want to know all the formulas for math or science, but one of your classmates may go on to use those to cure cancer or get humans to another planet safely. How cool is that?
And yes, literature is difficult to understand. Some of the stuff in Shakespeare has even me thinking "huh?" but there are themes, and morals in the stories and poems that are read in literature. English classes teach us how to write properly for improved communication, and in a global economy, good communication is key. Sure, language usage changes, but we need to learn those facts too. Yes, we speak English (technically American English), but what kind of excuse is that?
And speaking of excuses, I would like to share something I read on Facebook. "If it's important to you, you will find a reason. If it's not, you will find an excuse." Wow. Just wow. Seems to me that the students who have come up with every excuse in the book for failing to do what is necessary find education to not be important. Really? Let me see how you are truly getting by in the real world in 5 years without the knowledge you need from schooling (if Mommy and Daddy aren't bailing you out that is).
So, shouldn't we be holding these students accountable? Responsible? Hmm...let me think....OF COURSE!!! I hold my child responsible. Why can't other parents? It would hurt their feelings? Really? Okay, how do you think they will feel when you are gone and can't help them out of a situation they got themselves into because of continued poor choices? More than their feelings might be hurt - those affected would include: children, family, co-workers, friends, etc. Wow. Their feelings might be hurt. Sheesh.
Plain and simple, take responsibility for your choices people!! Gosh.
Okay, I'm stepping down from my soapbox now. Have a fantabulous weekend! And I hope George Takei has a fantastic birthday today!!
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Dreaded "Q"
Okay, if anyone knows me, they know I have a rather off-the-wall sense of humor, and today's letter reminds me of a Denis Leary routine about NyQuil. It's from his "No Cure for Cancer" album. Check it out - he makes me laugh, especially when he is very inappropriate.
Now, how about "quitting" for a topic? Weird huh? I guess seeing the drop in numbers in the junior class here makes me sad - and worried about my future.
I am failing to see how not understanding that actions/choices have consequences and those consequences may be very difficult to overcome, so quitting is an acceptable choice.
This goes for school, work, life.
Students should be held accountable for their choices and face consequences. Not failing a student who is failing classes and not holding that student back to understand the concepts being taught means those students are set up for failure in college, and the real world. Strong and terrible opinion, I know.
If work is difficult, seek employment elsewhere, but don't burn your bridges. You never know when you may have to crawl back and ask for a job there again.
And I know life is hard, and scary, and sometimes full of pain, but a permanent solution to a temporary problem is something that I do not see as acceptable. So....don't quit - anything!
Okay, if you have never heard of it, the Quintessentially Questionable Query Experiment is by a man participating in the A to Z Challenge this month, and he has the kind of humor I appreciate. Please go check him out. He has help for writers submitting their work (or attempting to submit anyway), and the information could be useful for some of you who read my blog. The posts he has been making for this month have given me reminders of words I rarely use, but could find a place for in my stories - although some are just fun to say, like today's - "quixotic" - so fun to say!
Anyway, another reminder of comment contest, so get to commenting! And W, yes, you...I know you can comment, so do it!!
Don't forget to tell your friends, family members, acquaintances, and even your enemies about the blog!
Have a fantastic day!
Now, how about "quitting" for a topic? Weird huh? I guess seeing the drop in numbers in the junior class here makes me sad - and worried about my future.
I am failing to see how not understanding that actions/choices have consequences and those consequences may be very difficult to overcome, so quitting is an acceptable choice.
This goes for school, work, life.
Students should be held accountable for their choices and face consequences. Not failing a student who is failing classes and not holding that student back to understand the concepts being taught means those students are set up for failure in college, and the real world. Strong and terrible opinion, I know.
If work is difficult, seek employment elsewhere, but don't burn your bridges. You never know when you may have to crawl back and ask for a job there again.
And I know life is hard, and scary, and sometimes full of pain, but a permanent solution to a temporary problem is something that I do not see as acceptable. So....don't quit - anything!
Okay, if you have never heard of it, the Quintessentially Questionable Query Experiment is by a man participating in the A to Z Challenge this month, and he has the kind of humor I appreciate. Please go check him out. He has help for writers submitting their work (or attempting to submit anyway), and the information could be useful for some of you who read my blog. The posts he has been making for this month have given me reminders of words I rarely use, but could find a place for in my stories - although some are just fun to say, like today's - "quixotic" - so fun to say!
Anyway, another reminder of comment contest, so get to commenting! And W, yes, you...I know you can comment, so do it!!
Don't forget to tell your friends, family members, acquaintances, and even your enemies about the blog!
Have a fantastic day!
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Posting
I know my posting has been a bit erratic. Please bear with me as I work on this idea I have for Much Ado About Nothing by William Shakespeare. It's a story idea, I promise.
Anyway...speaking of posting. Does anyone out there (if there is anyone out there really) have any ideas on some future posts? Is there something that you would like to hear me vent about, or address, or poke fun at, or....well, you get the idea.
I am trying to stay on top of this because I find that my creativity begins to flow when I write every day, or that elusive Muse deigns to show up and help me out a bit. My Muse is quite eccentric, and would rather hang out watching T.V. and smoking than doing what she is supposed to do. I wouldn't mind if the darn thing would even inspire me to keep up on laundry, dishes, organizing. No, my Muse is quite content to watch T.V., smoke a few cigarettes, drink some Dr Pepper, and play many a seek-and-find game on the computer. Way easier than actually providing a jumping off point for a story or even an idea for a story (simple idea, crazy idea, crappy idea, any idea would be nice). Yeah, my Muse is quite a bit like me...lazy.
And that Muse makes posting seem like I'm trying to write The Magnum Opus. Yeah, I know, it's a blog. The Muse is a lot like the students I see..."I have to actually do work?"
So, send some ideas my way, please. My Muse might realize she's in danger of losing her job that way.
Remember, there is a comment contest going on. Random comments will be chosen throughout the month to win a prize. The first commenter (Mrs. H!) will be getting her prize soon. I am hoping to run a comment contest every month. The rules will be spelled out clearly for everyone. The prize will be suitable for the person who wins, at least until I get my ducks in a row and can be a bit standardized.
Tell your friends about the blog! Gotta have readers to have comments!!
Anyway...speaking of posting. Does anyone out there (if there is anyone out there really) have any ideas on some future posts? Is there something that you would like to hear me vent about, or address, or poke fun at, or....well, you get the idea.
I am trying to stay on top of this because I find that my creativity begins to flow when I write every day, or that elusive Muse deigns to show up and help me out a bit. My Muse is quite eccentric, and would rather hang out watching T.V. and smoking than doing what she is supposed to do. I wouldn't mind if the darn thing would even inspire me to keep up on laundry, dishes, organizing. No, my Muse is quite content to watch T.V., smoke a few cigarettes, drink some Dr Pepper, and play many a seek-and-find game on the computer. Way easier than actually providing a jumping off point for a story or even an idea for a story (simple idea, crazy idea, crappy idea, any idea would be nice). Yeah, my Muse is quite a bit like me...lazy.
And that Muse makes posting seem like I'm trying to write The Magnum Opus. Yeah, I know, it's a blog. The Muse is a lot like the students I see..."I have to actually do work?"
So, send some ideas my way, please. My Muse might realize she's in danger of losing her job that way.
Remember, there is a comment contest going on. Random comments will be chosen throughout the month to win a prize. The first commenter (Mrs. H!) will be getting her prize soon. I am hoping to run a comment contest every month. The rules will be spelled out clearly for everyone. The prize will be suitable for the person who wins, at least until I get my ducks in a row and can be a bit standardized.
Tell your friends about the blog! Gotta have readers to have comments!!
Open
I am faced with a blinking cursor again, and posting for "O" seems very difficult to do. I am going to have to be open to any ideas.
Open to ideas - yes, open to new ideas, old ideas, new points of view. I think that could be some of my trouble with my writing. I am fighting against being open to new ways of looking at things. I struggle with looking at things and saying "what if" so I am starting to think I may not be the writer I think I am. *shrug* But, I have been finding ideas in the weirdest places. Zombies...Shakespeare....some what-ifs and some new points of view.
So I am trying to be more open to new points of view. Until I hear strange stories like the one about the Stalking Cat (thanks for THAT visual, W!). Look it up. Be shocked. Anyone who knows me knows that I am pretty good with body modification, just make up your own mind, okay. Might be me being old (another "O" word).
Now, I am going to remind you to start commenting because I have a comment contest that began on the 1st of April. The first commenter (Mrs. H!) gets a prize, and there will be random comments chosen throughout the rest of the month which will win a prize. I am hoping to make the contest monthly. Clear rules will be established and stated for everyone's benefit! When you comment, remember, I might be looking for the one that makes me spit my Dr Pepper onto the screen, or the one that makes me fight off the tears. Just show me some response, that I touched something in you that makes you feel strong enough to respond.
And don't forget, tell your friends! If things work out, I could see me building this into something useful for everyone, not just me to vent onto.
One more thing, let's all try to be a bit more open to new points of view, shall we?
Open to ideas - yes, open to new ideas, old ideas, new points of view. I think that could be some of my trouble with my writing. I am fighting against being open to new ways of looking at things. I struggle with looking at things and saying "what if" so I am starting to think I may not be the writer I think I am. *shrug* But, I have been finding ideas in the weirdest places. Zombies...Shakespeare....some what-ifs and some new points of view.
So I am trying to be more open to new points of view. Until I hear strange stories like the one about the Stalking Cat (thanks for THAT visual, W!). Look it up. Be shocked. Anyone who knows me knows that I am pretty good with body modification, just make up your own mind, okay. Might be me being old (another "O" word).
Now, I am going to remind you to start commenting because I have a comment contest that began on the 1st of April. The first commenter (Mrs. H!) gets a prize, and there will be random comments chosen throughout the rest of the month which will win a prize. I am hoping to make the contest monthly. Clear rules will be established and stated for everyone's benefit! When you comment, remember, I might be looking for the one that makes me spit my Dr Pepper onto the screen, or the one that makes me fight off the tears. Just show me some response, that I touched something in you that makes you feel strong enough to respond.
And don't forget, tell your friends! If things work out, I could see me building this into something useful for everyone, not just me to vent onto.
One more thing, let's all try to be a bit more open to new points of view, shall we?
Monday, April 16, 2012
Neighbors
We all have them. Some we enjoy, some we couldn't care less about. I have some of both. I try to be the former, and hope I am not the later.
What I have enjoyed about neighbors is that in this small northeastern town in a square state the "neighborhood" is really the whole town. Someone knows someone who knows someone who knows you. When things are tough for you and yours, someone will help you out, and often it is truly a friend of a friend of a friend. And these friends help out with no thought of being repaid or recognized, just to help out someone from their neighborhood.
I also love the fact that for the most part, my children do not have to worry too much about who their neighbors are. If my children are seen somewhere, I hear about it. And that is super handy when one of them is a teenager who likes to think she can get away with sneaking out or around. *evil Mom laugh*
I have enjoyed one particular set of neighbors since the day I moved onto the street where I am living. This family are energetic, thoughtful, and super friendly, although at first I am fairly certain the husband thought I was a druggie or a whore because of the hours and company I kept while tending bar. Recently he helped me tear down my mother's fence, and he told me he has really enjoyed watching my children grow up, and the changes I have made in my life. That was a right neighborly thing of him to say.
I like to pay it forward when folks help me out, and so, neighbors, I enjoy each of you for your own special ways, whims, and worries. Thank you for being my neighbors on this new leg of my journey!
Please, remember, I am planning a comment contest with prizes, so, comment and tell your friends and family about my blog!
What I have enjoyed about neighbors is that in this small northeastern town in a square state the "neighborhood" is really the whole town. Someone knows someone who knows someone who knows you. When things are tough for you and yours, someone will help you out, and often it is truly a friend of a friend of a friend. And these friends help out with no thought of being repaid or recognized, just to help out someone from their neighborhood.
I also love the fact that for the most part, my children do not have to worry too much about who their neighbors are. If my children are seen somewhere, I hear about it. And that is super handy when one of them is a teenager who likes to think she can get away with sneaking out or around. *evil Mom laugh*
I have enjoyed one particular set of neighbors since the day I moved onto the street where I am living. This family are energetic, thoughtful, and super friendly, although at first I am fairly certain the husband thought I was a druggie or a whore because of the hours and company I kept while tending bar. Recently he helped me tear down my mother's fence, and he told me he has really enjoyed watching my children grow up, and the changes I have made in my life. That was a right neighborly thing of him to say.
I like to pay it forward when folks help me out, and so, neighbors, I enjoy each of you for your own special ways, whims, and worries. Thank you for being my neighbors on this new leg of my journey!
Please, remember, I am planning a comment contest with prizes, so, comment and tell your friends and family about my blog!
"M"
My cursor was blinking at me as I stared at the screen. What topic for this letter? I thought as I watched the cursor blink. There are too many choices for this letter, and all are quite touchy subjects.
Militant - oh yeah, don't get me started on militant right wing Moral Majority folks. I would lose my few readers quickly. I don't like my morality legislated. Just a thing. Militant homophobes? Please - who are they to judge?
Marriage - an institution. I am not fond of being in an institution. I am not a sheeple.
Misfit - Hey! That's a topic I can get behind. That is me, although I am apparently less of one these days. I like being different from others. I struggled with this in high school, a time when everyone struggles with identity, but I love being me now. I love that I don't fit into someone's mold of what a 40 year old single mom of 2 should act like, and I love that I surprise people when they learn details about me.
Mothers - Ah, another topic I can get behind. Mothers are amazing creatures. Carrying (or adopting), raising, loving, being responsible for and acting responsible towards, a child are such wonderful traits of being a mother. That moment when a child hugs you just because they want to is one of the most precious and bad-feeling reducing actions. As a single parent, I have enjoyed the time I get to spend with my children, and guard it well. I do little that would trade making memories with my children. Even half an hour playing the Wii with my children (or often watching them play) is so relaxing and produces joy in my soul. I relish my children's presence (usually when they have been absent) although I do claim annoyance at the way they are helicopter-like when I am playing some games on my computer at home.
So, have I covered "M" today? Please, comment and let me know what you feel about my topics.
Remember, I am looking to have a comment contest, with prizes and stuff!
Militant - oh yeah, don't get me started on militant right wing Moral Majority folks. I would lose my few readers quickly. I don't like my morality legislated. Just a thing. Militant homophobes? Please - who are they to judge?
Marriage - an institution. I am not fond of being in an institution. I am not a sheeple.
Misfit - Hey! That's a topic I can get behind. That is me, although I am apparently less of one these days. I like being different from others. I struggled with this in high school, a time when everyone struggles with identity, but I love being me now. I love that I don't fit into someone's mold of what a 40 year old single mom of 2 should act like, and I love that I surprise people when they learn details about me.
Mothers - Ah, another topic I can get behind. Mothers are amazing creatures. Carrying (or adopting), raising, loving, being responsible for and acting responsible towards, a child are such wonderful traits of being a mother. That moment when a child hugs you just because they want to is one of the most precious and bad-feeling reducing actions. As a single parent, I have enjoyed the time I get to spend with my children, and guard it well. I do little that would trade making memories with my children. Even half an hour playing the Wii with my children (or often watching them play) is so relaxing and produces joy in my soul. I relish my children's presence (usually when they have been absent) although I do claim annoyance at the way they are helicopter-like when I am playing some games on my computer at home.
So, have I covered "M" today? Please, comment and let me know what you feel about my topics.
Remember, I am looking to have a comment contest, with prizes and stuff!
Friday, April 13, 2012
Love, laughter, and lollipops(?)
Yeah, yeah, a little late, again!! Meh, the weather is playing havoc with my desire to be productive. *shrug*
So, today is "L" day.
I love my life...despite the chaos, weirdness, and general feeling of "wtf" that happens on a regular basis. I have an amazingly wonderful and crazy family, fantastic-ly funny friends who keep me in stitches (thankfully not literally), and a great job. I am so grateful and feel so lucky to be where I am today.
I think my post about jokes gave you the idea that I love to laugh. I still haven't received any comments regarding these posts (except you Mrs. H!!!! and thank you for that!!!!!!!!), so maybe the few people who are reading this don't like to laugh?!?!?!? How horrible! Must be boring and sad to be around you!
Okay, lollipops. Meh, it just fit. Although, speaking as a parent, a teenage girl sucking on a lollipop scares me totally ****less. I'm just saying. I feel sorry for the parents of these girls who do this in public. At least Girl stays inside the house if she has a sucker. (Whew!!) Although I love me some green apple lollipops, or just about any green colored lollipop - especially Saf-t-pops. Comment if you know what those are!!!
Anyway, the post is finished, and M and N will be happening Monday. Sorry, got a busy weekend ahead of me.
Love, lollipops, and laughter for all of my readers!!
P.S. Tell your friends about the blog. I am thinking of running a contest for the readers, and it will involve those who actually comment!!
So, today is "L" day.
I love my life...despite the chaos, weirdness, and general feeling of "wtf" that happens on a regular basis. I have an amazingly wonderful and crazy family, fantastic-ly funny friends who keep me in stitches (thankfully not literally), and a great job. I am so grateful and feel so lucky to be where I am today.
I think my post about jokes gave you the idea that I love to laugh. I still haven't received any comments regarding these posts (except you Mrs. H!!!! and thank you for that!!!!!!!!), so maybe the few people who are reading this don't like to laugh?!?!?!? How horrible! Must be boring and sad to be around you!
Okay, lollipops. Meh, it just fit. Although, speaking as a parent, a teenage girl sucking on a lollipop scares me totally ****less. I'm just saying. I feel sorry for the parents of these girls who do this in public. At least Girl stays inside the house if she has a sucker. (Whew!!) Although I love me some green apple lollipops, or just about any green colored lollipop - especially Saf-t-pops. Comment if you know what those are!!!
Anyway, the post is finished, and M and N will be happening Monday. Sorry, got a busy weekend ahead of me.
Love, lollipops, and laughter for all of my readers!!
P.S. Tell your friends about the blog. I am thinking of running a contest for the readers, and it will involve those who actually comment!!
Thursday, April 12, 2012
"K" is for...
keeper. As in, "this one is a keeper." I know I brag about Girl and Little Man (hey, I'm a proud parent) and my children are keepers, but I want to talk about you being a keeper.
I wonder if we take the time in ourselves to be the kind of person/friend/parent that others could say "this one is a keeper" about us.
My children behave in public (for the most part), have good manners (in general), are very loved, make it to school everyday that they are not ill, are clean, and are fed. I have been told repeatedly that I am doing a fantastic job with raising my children, so I don't doubt I am a keeper parent.
I frequently find myself helping one of my friends (M) make it to the store, usually because either her husband can't seem to find the time to help her out in getting her license or even just bothering to drive her. M tries to buy me at least a Dr Pepper for doing this (good bribe!), and most of the time it isn't a problem to help out. Somedays I forget and agree to help when I am spreading myself too thin, but it works out. M has also paid gas money, for which I am thankful. I don't do this because of the Dr P bribe or the gas money, but because she has a genuine need for assistance.
My friend A never asks me for more than I can handle, always gives more than I need, and I don't feel icky when I have to tell her "no" for some reason because she is also a single parent and knows how life gets in the way. I also love the fact that we can share our problems with each other and it is never more about one of us, or "one-up" time for problems. I appreciate A's sense of humor, laughing, and surprising ways, and I know she appreciates my quirky ways. I feel that these 2 examples alone show that I am a keeper of a friend, although, it does sound a bit like bragging, and nice people don't do that, so maybe I'm not such a keeper of a person. *grin*
I feel that (for the most part) I do unto others as they do unto me, and treat others as I wish to be treated. I try hard not to be a problem for anyone else, or a burden on society. I attempt to keep myself out of the gossip groups by not doing things which could be grist for the mill. I go to work every day that I am required to, unless I am sick, or one of my children is sick. I pay my bills (mostly on time - hey, I'm a blonde and have reached that magical age to boot), take care of my pet, keep my yard nice(ish), and try to be a nice neighbor.
So, am I a keeper of a person? I sure hope so, because I have many in my life. Thank you all for being "keepers"!!!!!!
I wonder if we take the time in ourselves to be the kind of person/friend/parent that others could say "this one is a keeper" about us.
My children behave in public (for the most part), have good manners (in general), are very loved, make it to school everyday that they are not ill, are clean, and are fed. I have been told repeatedly that I am doing a fantastic job with raising my children, so I don't doubt I am a keeper parent.
I frequently find myself helping one of my friends (M) make it to the store, usually because either her husband can't seem to find the time to help her out in getting her license or even just bothering to drive her. M tries to buy me at least a Dr Pepper for doing this (good bribe!), and most of the time it isn't a problem to help out. Somedays I forget and agree to help when I am spreading myself too thin, but it works out. M has also paid gas money, for which I am thankful. I don't do this because of the Dr P bribe or the gas money, but because she has a genuine need for assistance.
My friend A never asks me for more than I can handle, always gives more than I need, and I don't feel icky when I have to tell her "no" for some reason because she is also a single parent and knows how life gets in the way. I also love the fact that we can share our problems with each other and it is never more about one of us, or "one-up" time for problems. I appreciate A's sense of humor, laughing, and surprising ways, and I know she appreciates my quirky ways. I feel that these 2 examples alone show that I am a keeper of a friend, although, it does sound a bit like bragging, and nice people don't do that, so maybe I'm not such a keeper of a person. *grin*
I feel that (for the most part) I do unto others as they do unto me, and treat others as I wish to be treated. I try hard not to be a problem for anyone else, or a burden on society. I attempt to keep myself out of the gossip groups by not doing things which could be grist for the mill. I go to work every day that I am required to, unless I am sick, or one of my children is sick. I pay my bills (mostly on time - hey, I'm a blonde and have reached that magical age to boot), take care of my pet, keep my yard nice(ish), and try to be a nice neighbor.
So, am I a keeper of a person? I sure hope so, because I have many in my life. Thank you all for being "keepers"!!!!!!
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Jokes
I don't know about you, but I love jokes. All kinds of jokes. Almost any type will make me laugh. I even like some of the jokes that make me roll my eyes and are known as groaners.
My grandfather loves to tell me jokes. My friend "A" loves to tell me jokes and she giggles great! My son tries to tell jokes, but his unexpected dry wit is the best. Girl rocks at her very English sense of humor, and her really great way of telling stories.
My students can tell stories and jokes very well, and sometimes that few minutes of laughter makes working on the subject a bit easier.
I love to laugh, and appreciate all kinds of jokes. Feel free to comment with one of your favorite jokes, although warn the readers if it is NSFW or kids.
I leave you with this one:
A mother was walking with her four year old daughter one day when the daughter picked up something off the ground and started to put it in her mouth. The mother stopped her and told her she shouldn't do that.
"Why," asked the little girl (Mom's favorite phrase!).
"Because it's dirty. It's been on the ground. You don't know where it's been. It probably has germs."
The little girl looked up at her mom with admiration and asked,"How do you know so much?"
Thinking quickly, the mother said, "All moms know so much. We have to. It's on the Mommy Test. If you don't know it, you don't get to be a mommy."
The little girl pondered this for a few minutes, then her face brightened. "I get it! If you don't pass the test, you get to be a daddy!"
"Yep," said the mom.
My grandfather loves to tell me jokes. My friend "A" loves to tell me jokes and she giggles great! My son tries to tell jokes, but his unexpected dry wit is the best. Girl rocks at her very English sense of humor, and her really great way of telling stories.
My students can tell stories and jokes very well, and sometimes that few minutes of laughter makes working on the subject a bit easier.
I love to laugh, and appreciate all kinds of jokes. Feel free to comment with one of your favorite jokes, although warn the readers if it is NSFW or kids.
I leave you with this one:
A mother was walking with her four year old daughter one day when the daughter picked up something off the ground and started to put it in her mouth. The mother stopped her and told her she shouldn't do that.
"Why," asked the little girl (Mom's favorite phrase!).
"Because it's dirty. It's been on the ground. You don't know where it's been. It probably has germs."
The little girl looked up at her mom with admiration and asked,"How do you know so much?"
Thinking quickly, the mother said, "All moms know so much. We have to. It's on the Mommy Test. If you don't know it, you don't get to be a mommy."
The little girl pondered this for a few minutes, then her face brightened. "I get it! If you don't pass the test, you get to be a daddy!"
"Yep," said the mom.
"i"
So today's (yesterday's actually) topic will begin with "i". Sometimes I am reminded of Sesame Street as I do these posts -- "Today's show is brought to you by the letter "I" and also the number "6". Comment if you remember being "Raised on the Street" (LOL).
Anyway, today the topic will be...
insecurity.
Do you experience this? If you don't you can't be human. I experience it everyday, every time I walk out the door. I doubt myself, my abilities, my needs. Do you?
I struggle with believing in myself, not sure why. I don't believe a compliment that comes my way (unless it is spoken by my children because I have them trained to be truthful, mostly). I have a hard time trusting words from people I don't know well. Pretty sure they want something, and I'm not down with that.
I don't believe in my abilities as a writer, although I have heard I do fine. I am involved in a writing group to write for myself, and encourage others with their abilities. I also don't believe that I'm smart enough to be a tutor, although I know that the students who come to my for help leave having learned something. I just doubt myself in that respect.
Okay, low self-esteem. Whatever. I call it insecurity.
Thoughts.
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
H
Okay, I know, I know. I took an extra day off. I blame work. I got an extra day off from work, so I took it from the blog too. *shrug* Whatcha gonna do?
So, last week was Holy Week, and many celebrated the sacrifice made for mankind. That's all I will say about that, in deference to my many readers beliefs.
I have heard and seen many Hilarious things in the last few days, including a story my daughter told on herself. I warned her I would share.
Apparently, students have been saying "YOLO" during class - although I am unclear on what it is regarding in particular. Anyway, Girl asked one of the students why she was talking about ice cream. My daughter did not know what the abbreviation/acronym stood for. If you ask her, she tells the story much better. I laughed and laughed - almost piddled myself, the way she told the story.
And just so you all know, if you didn't already, it stands for You Only Live Once.
Anyway, short post, but I am caught up - sort of. I will try for 2 tomorrow.
So, last week was Holy Week, and many celebrated the sacrifice made for mankind. That's all I will say about that, in deference to my many readers beliefs.
I have heard and seen many Hilarious things in the last few days, including a story my daughter told on herself. I warned her I would share.
Apparently, students have been saying "YOLO" during class - although I am unclear on what it is regarding in particular. Anyway, Girl asked one of the students why she was talking about ice cream. My daughter did not know what the abbreviation/acronym stood for. If you ask her, she tells the story much better. I laughed and laughed - almost piddled myself, the way she told the story.
And just so you all know, if you didn't already, it stands for You Only Live Once.
Anyway, short post, but I am caught up - sort of. I will try for 2 tomorrow.
Saturday, April 7, 2012
"G"
Today I would like to talk about being Grateful. I know, I know. But are we truly considering the things we have, the life we have? Are we feeling grateful for what we have in our lives?
I am grateful that I have two absolutely wonderful children who love me for me, every day, angry or happy. These two amazing beings are a marvel to me. It has been simply fantastic to have them to myself for the last nearly 9 years. I have learned a lot about myself, and being a good parent, in that time. I have become so appreciative of the time I get with my young ones.
Girl - You are a true beauty, inside and out. You make me feel very proud when I see your smiling face and hear your laugh. I love how you love me, and always make me smile every day. Your little ways are something that I can't see my life without, even if I tell you they are annoying. I love you so very much, and have loved watching you grow into the lady you are becoming.
Little Man - You are so amazing, my son. You have a fantastic imagination, and the most loving heart. I love how helpful you are, almost always without a complaint. And you have some of the greatest ideas for games to play. I love our conversations, and that you love so many things I do. You are totally your mother's son (except for the tapioca). I dig that we read comics together, and write together, and watch shoot 'em ups together. I think you are awesome, and I am eager to see you continue your growth into the young man you will be. I love you!
I am grateful for a mom who has grown with me in the last 10 years. Thank you so much for everything you have done, and continue to do, for us. Even if I want to commit elder abuse on you, I love you for all your cynical and old bat ways. I love the laughter we have, and the serious crap we talk about, and having the strangest talks about things like "from not here" and other euphemisms we have discovered.
Friends, I am truly grateful for each one of you. The laughter, love, and trust we have can not be replaced. Ups and downs and in-betweens have been part of us growing together. I love each of you for your special ways, ways I appreciate every day.
Students, I am grateful for you as well. Each of you has taught me something in return for working with you. Thank you for your differences.
Tell me what you are grateful for today. I would love to hear from you!
I am grateful that I have two absolutely wonderful children who love me for me, every day, angry or happy. These two amazing beings are a marvel to me. It has been simply fantastic to have them to myself for the last nearly 9 years. I have learned a lot about myself, and being a good parent, in that time. I have become so appreciative of the time I get with my young ones.
Girl - You are a true beauty, inside and out. You make me feel very proud when I see your smiling face and hear your laugh. I love how you love me, and always make me smile every day. Your little ways are something that I can't see my life without, even if I tell you they are annoying. I love you so very much, and have loved watching you grow into the lady you are becoming.
Little Man - You are so amazing, my son. You have a fantastic imagination, and the most loving heart. I love how helpful you are, almost always without a complaint. And you have some of the greatest ideas for games to play. I love our conversations, and that you love so many things I do. You are totally your mother's son (except for the tapioca). I dig that we read comics together, and write together, and watch shoot 'em ups together. I think you are awesome, and I am eager to see you continue your growth into the young man you will be. I love you!
I am grateful for a mom who has grown with me in the last 10 years. Thank you so much for everything you have done, and continue to do, for us. Even if I want to commit elder abuse on you, I love you for all your cynical and old bat ways. I love the laughter we have, and the serious crap we talk about, and having the strangest talks about things like "from not here" and other euphemisms we have discovered.
Friends, I am truly grateful for each one of you. The laughter, love, and trust we have can not be replaced. Ups and downs and in-betweens have been part of us growing together. I love each of you for your special ways, ways I appreciate every day.
Students, I am grateful for you as well. Each of you has taught me something in return for working with you. Thank you for your differences.
Tell me what you are grateful for today. I would love to hear from you!
Friday, April 6, 2012
Fooled Ya!
I am sure most folks who know me thought I was going to pick a different "topic" today. Fooled ya!
I was thinking of a number of possibilities, mostly adjectives. I finally settled on Frantic.
I have been watching students who have put their school work on the back burner on a stove in another county for the last several months. Now that there are only 7 weeks of school left, these same students are now frantic in their efforts to boost their grades. I just shake my head. I prefer not to wait until the last minute to do things (except some of the papers I wrote for my second degree - hated those busywork papers *grr*).
Now this frenzy of frenetic foolishness is getting these students where exactly? I truly do not understand the choices the students make being acceptable to parents. There is no excuse for being unaware of your own child's schooling. Around here, many parents work shift work at the coal mines. This means the parent is gone for 14 hours a day, including driving time. These shifts are from 7 - 7, both night shift and day shift. Most of these folks work 14 days out of the month, and not in a row. That leaves at least 14 more days in the month that the parent can catch up on the parenting part of the child's life.
Believe me, I understand the frantic rushing around of meeting work demands, home demands, and life in general demands. But there is a time to say "No" to the optional things. I recently chose to stand down from my office in my sorority because I know it was taking too much from my time with my children, as well as finding the time to perform the duties that aren't seen during the meetings. I love my sisters in the sorority, but they want me to be at my best, so they were very understanding when I chose not to run for the office again.
That's only one example of slowing yourself down in your frantic life. If you sat down and even just thought about all the little things like that you do outside of the absolute demands of work and home life, you would be amazed at how much time you could find to be with your family. I have even told my mother that I need a weekend at home to do my housework, so going to town was out of the question for me. She understands. If the person asking something from you cannot understand when you say no, that is too bad. You sometimes have to put yourself first, so you can put your family first.
Frantic activity is most often the result of not making wise choices - believe me, I know. I recall a number of last minute posting for my class, because I chose not to write the paper early in the week. If I hadn't fooled around, or put it off, I could have had quality time with my children instead of getting to know my keyboard. The students seem to thrive on this frantic time, and I just shudder. I wonder what their future holds.
I was thinking of a number of possibilities, mostly adjectives. I finally settled on Frantic.
I have been watching students who have put their school work on the back burner on a stove in another county for the last several months. Now that there are only 7 weeks of school left, these same students are now frantic in their efforts to boost their grades. I just shake my head. I prefer not to wait until the last minute to do things (except some of the papers I wrote for my second degree - hated those busywork papers *grr*).
Now this frenzy of frenetic foolishness is getting these students where exactly? I truly do not understand the choices the students make being acceptable to parents. There is no excuse for being unaware of your own child's schooling. Around here, many parents work shift work at the coal mines. This means the parent is gone for 14 hours a day, including driving time. These shifts are from 7 - 7, both night shift and day shift. Most of these folks work 14 days out of the month, and not in a row. That leaves at least 14 more days in the month that the parent can catch up on the parenting part of the child's life.
Believe me, I understand the frantic rushing around of meeting work demands, home demands, and life in general demands. But there is a time to say "No" to the optional things. I recently chose to stand down from my office in my sorority because I know it was taking too much from my time with my children, as well as finding the time to perform the duties that aren't seen during the meetings. I love my sisters in the sorority, but they want me to be at my best, so they were very understanding when I chose not to run for the office again.
That's only one example of slowing yourself down in your frantic life. If you sat down and even just thought about all the little things like that you do outside of the absolute demands of work and home life, you would be amazed at how much time you could find to be with your family. I have even told my mother that I need a weekend at home to do my housework, so going to town was out of the question for me. She understands. If the person asking something from you cannot understand when you say no, that is too bad. You sometimes have to put yourself first, so you can put your family first.
Frantic activity is most often the result of not making wise choices - believe me, I know. I recall a number of last minute posting for my class, because I chose not to write the paper early in the week. If I hadn't fooled around, or put it off, I could have had quality time with my children instead of getting to know my keyboard. The students seem to thrive on this frantic time, and I just shudder. I wonder what their future holds.
Thursday, April 5, 2012
Euphemism
I love the word euphemism. I vividly recall hearing George Carlin use the word in a routine regarding fussy eaters. It still makes me snicker.
I have euphemisms for many things, as do most people. Although, frequently I avoid euphemisms and go straight for the most sailor-like word to describe a thing or situation. Yes, I have been known to drop the f-bomb in very creative ways (just ask my mother). However, I also like some of the euphemisms I have discovered. My mother likes to say that people are from "here" or from "not here" - yes, seems obvious I know, but you may have had to have been there. I also call trucks that are obviously compensating for some shortcoming by another name.
My daughter calls shots "torture" when she has to get them. I call them "revenge." It's a point of view thing I'm sure. I call tattoos a "relaxation technique" while others may call them "painful." To each his own.
A favorite euphemism I have is for those very nice people who drive in a way that tends to make me a bit annoyed (another euphemism for having road rage), but this is not appropriate to share where young eyes may view.
I would love to read some of your favorite euphemisms, so please share them in the comments! Have a fantabulous day!!
I have euphemisms for many things, as do most people. Although, frequently I avoid euphemisms and go straight for the most sailor-like word to describe a thing or situation. Yes, I have been known to drop the f-bomb in very creative ways (just ask my mother). However, I also like some of the euphemisms I have discovered. My mother likes to say that people are from "here" or from "not here" - yes, seems obvious I know, but you may have had to have been there. I also call trucks that are obviously compensating for some shortcoming by another name.
My daughter calls shots "torture" when she has to get them. I call them "revenge." It's a point of view thing I'm sure. I call tattoos a "relaxation technique" while others may call them "painful." To each his own.
A favorite euphemism I have is for those very nice people who drive in a way that tends to make me a bit annoyed (another euphemism for having road rage), but this is not appropriate to share where young eyes may view.
I would love to read some of your favorite euphemisms, so please share them in the comments! Have a fantabulous day!!
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Differences
I think today the topic will be Differences.
I love the fact there are differences in the world. It reminds me of a line from the much-maligned "Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves." The line is spoken by Morgan Freeman to a little girl who had asked him if God painted him. He said, "God loves rich and wondrous variety." Does that not just speak to you?
I love looking around and seeing different houses, different yards, different people. I love the different flowers blooming, the different games the children play in the summer, the different attitudes during the year. I enjoy the variety in my life. I enjoy my different life.
I have had the best conversations with people who are very different from me, and have learned so much. I have seen the simplest things bring the most diverse people together. Differences make for new ideas, new points of view. Walter Lippman's quote comes to mind here: "Where all think alike, no one thinks very much."
The further thought occurs that I have noticed some who take offense when I make a valid point/argument to something that has been stated by the person. This seems to make clear that the other person wants me to only think the way that person thinks. I don't like that idea. I have my opinions (right or wrong) and so does that person. I may not agree with that person 100%, but the person should be allowed their own opinion. Shouldn't I be allowed to have my own opinions?
I know that seems a bit hypocritical of me when I argue with students about education being important, but students haven't had enough life experience to understand the consequences of choosing to discontinue education. I find it strange that many of today's youth see education as an unnecessary evil, while a mere 2 decades ago, education was highly valued. Truly a confusing change in beliefs.
Anyway, today we should celebrate our differences! Notice someone very different from yourself, and acknowledge that those differences make that person special. Notice the variety in your own life, and appreciate it!
I love the fact there are differences in the world. It reminds me of a line from the much-maligned "Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves." The line is spoken by Morgan Freeman to a little girl who had asked him if God painted him. He said, "God loves rich and wondrous variety." Does that not just speak to you?
I love looking around and seeing different houses, different yards, different people. I love the different flowers blooming, the different games the children play in the summer, the different attitudes during the year. I enjoy the variety in my life. I enjoy my different life.
I have had the best conversations with people who are very different from me, and have learned so much. I have seen the simplest things bring the most diverse people together. Differences make for new ideas, new points of view. Walter Lippman's quote comes to mind here: "Where all think alike, no one thinks very much."
The further thought occurs that I have noticed some who take offense when I make a valid point/argument to something that has been stated by the person. This seems to make clear that the other person wants me to only think the way that person thinks. I don't like that idea. I have my opinions (right or wrong) and so does that person. I may not agree with that person 100%, but the person should be allowed their own opinion. Shouldn't I be allowed to have my own opinions?
I know that seems a bit hypocritical of me when I argue with students about education being important, but students haven't had enough life experience to understand the consequences of choosing to discontinue education. I find it strange that many of today's youth see education as an unnecessary evil, while a mere 2 decades ago, education was highly valued. Truly a confusing change in beliefs.
Anyway, today we should celebrate our differences! Notice someone very different from yourself, and acknowledge that those differences make that person special. Notice the variety in your own life, and appreciate it!
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Create
Today's topic is Create. I believe that creating something is an excellent release, almost to the point of a necessity for many. I have also watched students struggle with creating a single simple sentence for a paper.
Why does this happen? For many of the students I work with, it has been a lack of confidence in ability. For other students it is a lack of ability. If I write what the student says, the inability to create seems to disappear. For me, facing a blank page can cause near panic attacks. I enjoy watching students suddenly have a burst of creativity, even if it is regarding a dry topic for an essay.
I have also been known to throw 5,000 words into a document in a few hours. Unusual, but it has happened. I also enjoy drawing, but that definitely takes me a great length of time. I didn't even know I could draw until I joined my mother for a class a few years ago! I even enjoy playing my flute and my saxophones (when they weren't broken). Although I am usually reading someone else's music, I am still creating music when I play my instruments.
I have seen my mother enjoy working with clay, or knitting, or painting, and she used to enjoy cross-stitch (those darn holes seem to get smaller and smaller, don't they?).
My daughter loves to write and draw, and so does my son. Girl has been drawing a lot, and has written some great starts to stories. Little Man has been drawing comic strips like crazy. I hope that they both stick with it.
I have a friend who writes quite a bit, and this seems to be a necessity. She says she has to get the ideas out or they poke and poke at her until she stops and writes.
I hope my readers have enjoyed creating things. W - thanks for my picture! Keep drawing, or coloring! I love what you give me! Even if you don't think you are creative, just try to create something, anything! It really doesn't have to be for public consumption. Just let yourself relax and create.
Why does this happen? For many of the students I work with, it has been a lack of confidence in ability. For other students it is a lack of ability. If I write what the student says, the inability to create seems to disappear. For me, facing a blank page can cause near panic attacks. I enjoy watching students suddenly have a burst of creativity, even if it is regarding a dry topic for an essay.
I have also been known to throw 5,000 words into a document in a few hours. Unusual, but it has happened. I also enjoy drawing, but that definitely takes me a great length of time. I didn't even know I could draw until I joined my mother for a class a few years ago! I even enjoy playing my flute and my saxophones (when they weren't broken). Although I am usually reading someone else's music, I am still creating music when I play my instruments.
I have seen my mother enjoy working with clay, or knitting, or painting, and she used to enjoy cross-stitch (those darn holes seem to get smaller and smaller, don't they?).
My daughter loves to write and draw, and so does my son. Girl has been drawing a lot, and has written some great starts to stories. Little Man has been drawing comic strips like crazy. I hope that they both stick with it.
I have a friend who writes quite a bit, and this seems to be a necessity. She says she has to get the ideas out or they poke and poke at her until she stops and writes.
I hope my readers have enjoyed creating things. W - thanks for my picture! Keep drawing, or coloring! I love what you give me! Even if you don't think you are creative, just try to create something, anything! It really doesn't have to be for public consumption. Just let yourself relax and create.
Monday, April 2, 2012
A to Z Blogging
I have heard about this A to Z blogging, which you can read more about here. It is an interesting concept. Basically you agree to post every day during the month of April, except Sundays, for a total of 26 days. Each day has a letter assigned to it, alphabetically (not too obvious there, was I?).
This year the people who accept the challenge would start on April 1 with a topic that starts with A, and then continue on during the month, except for Sundays. Additionally, the challenger will go to the blog immediately following the challenger's own blog. The site suggests setting a goal of visiting 5 or more blogs a day. Not only will a blogger have topics for 26 days of blogging, but gets to view other blogs (for ideas and learning about some awesome fantastic and magnificent people), and gain some additional traffic to their own blog.
It sounds like fun, and having a start on an idea for every day I write would be a novel experience. I am obviously too late this year, since it is Day 2 of the Challenge, but it has given me some ideas for the month, as well as something to look forward to next year.
That being said, I think today's topic was Blogging.
This year the people who accept the challenge would start on April 1 with a topic that starts with A, and then continue on during the month, except for Sundays. Additionally, the challenger will go to the blog immediately following the challenger's own blog. The site suggests setting a goal of visiting 5 or more blogs a day. Not only will a blogger have topics for 26 days of blogging, but gets to view other blogs (for ideas and learning about some awesome fantastic and magnificent people), and gain some additional traffic to their own blog.
It sounds like fun, and having a start on an idea for every day I write would be a novel experience. I am obviously too late this year, since it is Day 2 of the Challenge, but it has given me some ideas for the month, as well as something to look forward to next year.
That being said, I think today's topic was Blogging.
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